Being married/ having a boyfriend is hard to keep the same lifestyle as you had before. Even if I really liked it, now the door is closed, you can’t get drunk and dance alone all night long, coming home drunk, flirting with cute guys, dating 2 and 3 of them at once. But what to do if your best friend is still single and asks you to go out with her, and for her it’s certainly not enough to stay an hour, drinking tea in a teahouse. She gets angry if you refuse spending time with her, claiming that you are «a boring woman» that I have no time for her which is not true. Honestly, I have always hated girls that devote all their free time to their boyfriends, stop answering calls, going out. In the past I had a friend that did exactly the same. We had really been close, so I was surprised when she stopped answering my calls. I got very frustrated and sad. And I hated it. Having a boyfriend before, I tried to take my single friend with me, to introduce her to some nice boy and to go out all together. But seems I failed.
My single friend keeps on inviting me to single parties, drunk events, and gets really angry hearing my refuse. Last Friday night we went out for a drink and 2 hours later I wanted to go home. «what about me? — she said — where am I gonna go?» I suggested her going to a pub where there were our common friends, but she refused and got angry.
How to deal with a sutuation like that? The point is that I still love parties, getting drunk of course, but my job ( I work for a music radio ) makes me tired now. I can’t go out that often, I am sick of parties now, I have spring lack of vitamins, I feel sleepy, and my boyfriend has nothing to do with that. And it is more then clear that my single friend wants to have great fun but that is not fun for me. How to deal with such a friend ?
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